Guided self-discovery for those who don’t fit

“For most of my life I thought there was something wrong with me. It turned out, there wasn’t — I’m just wired differently.

And that difference is my greatest strength.”

Welcome — I’m glad you’ve found your way here.

If you’re reading this, chances are you feel a little out of place or misunderstood too. Maybe you’ve always been told you’re “too much” — too intense, too sensitive, too fast, too emotional. Or maybe you’re bright and capable in so many areas… yet struggle in ways that don’t seem to “add up.” That was me for 50 years.

It wasn’t until I discovered I was Twice-Exceptional (2e: gifted + neurodivergent) that things finally made sense. Suddenly, the anxiety I’d carried my whole life lifted almost overnight. I could finally see myself clearly — strengths and struggles together — and start building a life that actually fits.

Now, I help adults who feel stuck, misunderstood, or exhausted — whether they know they’re neurodivergent, suspect they might be, or are simply struggling without answers after trying the usual routes like therapy or medication — to finally make sense of their experience.

My Approach

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What sets me apart is the fact that my entire approach is built on lived experience and a deep, intuitive understanding — it’s not a textbook framework or a one-size-fits-all model. I don’t just guide you through a pre-set programme. Instead, I draw on my own journey of being twice-exceptional, of seeing the world through a different lens, and of finding patterns and solutions that might not be visible on a standard roadmap.

My approach is neurodivergent-affirming. I don’t believe people are broken or need to be “fixed.” I help you uncover the patterns, strengths, and hidden gifts that already exist within you, so you can make sense of yourself and move forward with clarity.

People tell me that talking to me feels different because they feel truly heard and understood. I see the nuance, I see the connections, and I rely on my natural empathy and problem-solving to help you uncover your own unique path. In other words, I’m not just here to offer a formula. I’m here to offer a genuinely personalised experience that honours your individuality — because that’s exactly how I found my way, and I believe it’s how you’ll find yours too.

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What others have said

  • More Than Textbook Help - Real Experience, Real Connection

    “What makes this different is that Adie truly understands because he’s lived it. Unlike professionals who just repeat what they’ve read online, he relates in a way that feels real and genuine. When I was diagnosed, nothing the doctor said matched how I actually felt—but talking with Adie finally made sense of my experiences. It’s such a relief to be understood by someone who really gets it.”

  • Permission to Be Myself

    “Talking with you helped me realise how much I’d been hiding. I feel lighter, less anxious, and more able to be myself. For the first time, I’ve had honest conversations with my manager and my family, and it’s made such a difference. You really understand, and that makes all the difference.”

  • Understanding Beyond Words - Support That Makes Sense

    “I can’t thank you enough. Our chat made me realise how much I’d been hiding, and I already feel lighter and less anxious. For the first time, I spoke honestly with my family. It feels like I’ve given myself permission to just be me and face things instead of ignoring them. You really understand because you live it, not just read about it—and that makes all the difference.”